If you want to change something in your life that keeps you from being you, the best place to start is with your imagination. You want to change the energetic relationship between you and whatever the issue is so that it leads to expansion and new possibilities - close your eyes and FEEL that new you. The worst that can happen for anyone in their life is to be stuck in a pattern, an endless loop, of feeling a certain way about something - this keeps you from ever knowing that the possibility for change even exists!
Think about it. Here’s a simple example - imagine you are trying to lose weight. If every day, you look at the mirror and feel bad about your appearance, you are reinforcing a negative belief, making a bigger deal out of something than it actually is. Instead, imagine how you would look as your fit, happy self. How would that make you feel? Practice associating that feeling every time you think about your weight - you can even practice looking in the mirror and imagining looking at your new self with that authority. Not shifting to the idea that you need to lose weight, but that you are as slim as you want to be. You’ll quickly learn that this frame of mind automatically leads to a manifestation of better outcomes - it just happens and it’s easier. By repairing the way you think, removing the lack mindset it becomes less of an obstacle you are fighting. The weight loss will probably end up happening in a way that you couldn’t have predicted, the way that is meant for your unique self - which nobody but you can live and learn from.
This type of thinking, shifting your mindset, can be very helpful nowadays. Simply imagine your issue as already fixed - assume that energy and it will be given to you, reminding yourself that whatever challenges you still face in your daily life after changing your mindset are lessons you need to learn to get where you want. Enjoy your unique journey and make sure to do something you love every day, because that keeps on trucking along during hard times.